Question
My son particularly enjoys arguing with others. How should I educate him in daily life?
Answer
Your child is intelligent and active, and is not afraid to admit mistakes—a very good trait. Hugging other children is a way for children to express affection. However, children’s self-discipline is not yet fully developed, and it is normal for them to repeat mistakes, which usually requires the patience of parents to guide them. It is important that parents do not over-intervene or set too many rules, as this may leave children feeling overwhelmed. It is crucial to instill the value of honesty in children, as this will have a profound impact on their future development. Therefore, create a relaxed, pleasant, democratic, and harmonious family environment for the child; frequently reinforce the idea that “being honest is important”; meet the child’s reasonable needs and wishes; adopt the correct educational methods; establish some rules and strictly enforce them; and adults should lead by example.