Question

Why does my child, who is now nine months old, refuse to allow anyone to help with defecation? Lately, even though the stool shape is normal, he refuses to let anyone wipe his bottom, and it seems uncomfortable for him when he defecates. How can this situation be resolved?

Answer

The child may be experiencing discomfort during defecation. As they grow older and their diet becomes more diverse, the stool may become drier and harder to pass, which could lead to discomfort during defecation and result in a refusal to allow help. It is recommended to give your child more bananas, apples, and fibrous vegetables such as finely chopped celery and spinach to keep the stool smooth. With adjustments to the diet, the situation is expected to improve gradually.