Question
My child has been shy from a young age, and they are now 1 year and 7 months old. They are scared of watching TV during windy or snowy weather and don’t dare to watch TV or play alone. How can I help my child build confidence? My child’s father comes home only 5 days a month, will this situation affect the child’s personality? When we go out to play, if other children take away my child’s toys, the child will cry or directly give up without fighting for them.
Answer
Based on the information you provided, your child’s current situation may be due to parents’ high expectations and aspirations. Every child has their own personality and uniqueness, especially at the age of one and a half, parents should understand and respect their child’s characteristics. It is recommended that you interact more with your child, build trust with them, and let them feel the safety and stability of home. Additionally, although your child’s father spends less time at home, as long as he can provide enough love and companionship within the limited time, it will not have a significant impact on the child’s personality. For the situation where other children take away your child’s toys when playing outside, it is recommended that you guide your child to express their thoughts and feelings, while also teaching them how to protect their toys and rights.