Question
A 5-year-old boy shows aggressive behavior in kindergarten, including poking other children’s eyes, pushing them down, arguing with adults, running aimlessly, and being unable to sit still for more than five minutes. What are the characteristics of this behavior?
Answer
For a 5-year-old boy who exhibits aggressive behavior in kindergarten—such as poking other children’s eyes, pushing them down, arguing with adults, running aimlessly, and being unable to sit still for more than five minutes—it is suggested to adopt appropriate ‘cold treatment,’ not paying excessive attention or responding to the child’s temper. This allows the child to realize that methods like getting angry or hitting others are ineffective and thus naturally eliminate these behaviors. At the same time, set rules for the child and impose appropriate punishment for any violations, such as mild corporal punishment or making him reflect in his room.