Question
A 14-year-old child takes 2 to 3 minutes each time to wash their hands, even in snowy weather; using the bathroom and bathing consume 30 to 40 minutes. They speak to their parents rudely and are prone to anger, even having intentions of running away after arguing with their father and holding a suspicious attitude towards him. For the past two days, their mood has been persistently low, showing no interest in anything, and they cried for 1 to 2 hours at home after poor final exam results. What is going on?
Answer
Based on your description, a 14-year-old child’s extended hand-washing, taking up to 2 to 3 minutes each time, even in snowy weather; as well as spending long periods using the bathroom and bathing, are clear signs of anxiety. The child’s obsessive cleanliness is a method they use to alleviate anxiety. Their rude behavior towards their parents, their quick temper, and the strong inclination towards running away indicate a combative attitude. In the past two days, the child has been emotionally low, showing no interest in anything, and cried for long periods at home after poor final exam results. It is recommended that parents take their child to see a psychologist to understand their mental state and provide guidance. The psychologist will help the child manage their emotional issues and assist them in calming down.