Question
The child does not listen, does not communicate with others when out, does homework without concentration, and cannot focus during tutoring sessions. At home, they are lazy and argumentative; they will argue with adults regardless of whether it is good or bad, and even throw things. What should we do?
Answer
There are no inherently bad or good children in the world. Every child is an angel when born, but during their growth process, family education plays a crucial role. The child’s disobedience, lack of communication with others, poor performance in homework, laziness at home, argumentativeness, and throwing things may be caused by excessive pampering in some aspects of family education, a lack of respect for the child in certain areas, or not understanding the child’s true thoughts. Therefore, parents should learn how to communicate with adolescents and understand the characteristics of their growth process to effectively communicate with their children.