Question
My 13-year-old son, in the first year of junior high school, has always been a restless and mischievous child. Now, even during extra lessons, he can’t sit still, constantly looking around, wanting to walk whenever he feels like it. He talks and tells jokes during lessons, often doing things that seem bewildering for his age. He doesn’t care about teachers’ criticism or classmates’ bullying. At home, he sometimes suddenly shouts or speaks loudly, singing at the top of his voice. I don’t understand what this means.
Answer
Your son’s current symptoms indicate egocentricity and disregard for others’ feelings. Although it’s challenging to establish new rules now, it’s crucial to seek professional help as soon as possible. I recommend finding a youth psychology expert to develop an appropriate plan to help adjust his behavior.