Question

A 20-year-old young person, due to work training, met a mature man who is 20 years older than them. The young person finds the man stable and mature, and believes he is the type they like, and the man also has a favorable opinion of the young person. However, the young person knows that the man is married and is currently preparing for a divorce. The young person is asking themselves whether they should strive for their own happiness.

Answer

Considering the significant age gap between the two, it is suggested to consider pursuing a relationship only after the man’s divorce. Otherwise, there may be issues of responsibility in the future, such as the man possibly blaming the young person for losing his family. Additionally, it is appropriate to seek the opinions of family members. Regardless, once a decision is made, one should bravely take responsibility for their future.