Question
How should I guide a child who likes to hit others at school?
Answer
When a child hits others at school, the immediate response and handling method of the parents are very important. Parents should deal with the child in a calm manner, neither showing happiness nor harsh criticism or rough suppression. Attention can be redirected to help the child calm down before proceeding with a rational explanation. In daily life, parents should actively teach children proper ways to express their emotions, such as teaching them to kiss or gently stroke the parents to express love. Furthermore, parents should communicate with their children frequently, accompany them in play, and cultivate an optimistic and cheerful personality in their children. They should also involve their children in social activities and parent-child events to help them learn the skills of interacting with others. At the same time, parents should let their children watch healthy TV programs and accompany them while watching, explaining the moral lessons along the way. It is worth noting that parents’ words and actions have a significant influence on their children’s behavior patterns, so parents should always be mindful of their own conduct. Especially for parents, they should set a good example through positive behavior standards and avoid rude language and actions that could have a negative impact on their children. Additionally, parents should also be attentive to prevent and treat potential lead poisoning or imbalances in trace elements in their children.