Question
Is a middle school student considered to be in the rebellious phase? How can one communicate with a child who is going through adolescence and rebellion?
Answer
Firstly, parents should set an example for their children and should not lie. When they discover that their child is lying, they should not just blame them but instead find the root cause and guide them properly. A child might lie because they have made a mistake or are afraid of being scolded by their parents. Therefore, whether a child has done something wrong or has offered an unreasonable suggestion, parents should listen patiently and counsel them. Remember not to resort to hitting or cursing, as this only deepens the generation gap. It is important to educate them using logic and examples.