Question

The misconceptions of my parents have caused me to think differently from normal people since elementary school to high school. It was only in college that I accidentally learned about values, which can be said to be a sudden enlightenment. But for many years, the lack of values has led to many problems, so now I find it very difficult to deal with many things. What should I do?

Answer

For this situation, it is recommended that you take the opportunity to have a good talk with your parents, let them understand your inner thoughts, enhance mutual communication, and stabilize this situation. If you really cannot change them, then you should try to adjust your emotional state to adapt to this environment. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself in everyday life, try to think more positively and optimistically, communicate more with others, and don’t suppress yourself excessively.