Question
My child is in the second year of high school. Recently, they’ve been frequently going out with friends, playing, eating out, and not wanting to come home. They say they have a psychological knot that won’t untie, feeling that their parents are too strict. However, they also don’t have any self-control when playing with friends. I want to consult on this matter.
Answer
As children enter adolescence, there is an increase in hormone secretion, which can lead to endocrine disorders and trigger the phenomenon of adolescent aggression. With their minds not yet fully matured and poor self-control, it’s a natural outcome that they prefer playing to studying. Parents should adopt appropriate methods to communicate more with their children, engage in more conversations, and educate them to establish grand ideals and have a proper attitude towards learning, balancing work and rest.