Question
The child has been fine all along, but recently, the teacher and parents have said that the child fought with someone at school. When I asked the child, he said that when he is hurt by others, he wants to fight to suppress his feelings of helplessness. Is this related to the father’s scolding him for bad behavior in the past? What should we do?
Answer
According to the description, when a child has conflicts with others and wants to fight to suppress their feelings of helplessness, it is closely related to family education. It is recommended that parents communicate more with their children to understand their real thoughts and avoid using force. The father has the responsibility to teach the child principles in doing things and that wrongdoings should be punished. Guide the child to face difficulties they encounter and control their behavior. However, be tolerant and patient; do not be violent or use force. These are suggestions for the question “The child has been fine all along, but recently, the teacher and parents have said that the child fought with someone at school.” I hope this helps you, and wish you health!