Question
My baby is on the fourth day of life and refuses to breastfeed, only wanting to suck on longer pacifiers. I can’t use nipple shields, or express milk with a breast pump and feed him with a bottle. The doctor says that the mother’s nipples are in good condition, but the baby just can’t suck them. When I offer the nipple, the baby keeps searching but can’t find it, and then cries. What can I do to get my baby to directly breastfeed?
Answer
In this situation, it is important for the mother to pinch the areola while breastfeeding, trying to insert the nipple and areola completely into the baby’s mouth. At the same time, let the baby lie on its side, with chest and abdomen touching. Don’t rush when the baby cries; be patient and focus on letting the baby suckle. Avoid offering a bottle every time the baby cries; generally, after 1-2 days, the baby will regain the ability to breastfeed. Also, after feeding, remember to let the baby sit up and lean against the mother’s shoulder for burping. Pay attention to protecting the baby’s neck to prevent spitting up. I hope these suggestions can be of help.