Question
My son is almost 14 months old. Before, he could urinate on demand, but now he won’t defecate, no matter for urine or stool. He only releases a little when I put him down, but it’s obvious he hasn’t finished. When I pick him up to continue, he cries and fusses, but he just won’t go. I’m at a loss as to whether this is because the child is too mischievous or if it’s some kind of incontinence?
Answer
The child’s condition is not incontinence. The child has been eating soy milk made from black beans and red beans, and rice porridge with black rice and red jujube, which can cause black stools. Considering the child’s condition, it may still be related to daily habits. It is recommended to train the child to defecate at regular times to form a conditioned reflex. Praise the child with words or other rewards when they do well, as this will help strengthen the conditioned reflex. I hope my answer can be of help to you.